We’ve had a lot of reason to cry in the last 5 months, but this week it was tears of awe and gratitude when we opened a little note in the mail. We were reminded once again, people are so very lovely.

Family, friends, strangers…you’ve raised over $12,000 in Deacon’s name!

In the messy, overwhelming, all consuming days immediately following Deacons passing, we knew we needed to pick somewhere meaningful to him to designate for people to direct monetary memorials. It was one of the few quick and easy decisions. The Wichita Children’s Home.

I’m not sure what I expected would come in…I didn’t have the capacity to give it much thought…but maybe a couple thousand dollars. You’ve blown us away with your love and support. It is humbling and encouraging. More than I could express.

Deacon adored being a foster brother. His history in foster care himself, and his outgoing, inclusive personality made him the perfect welcoming ambassador for hurting children. From 2 days to 17 years, he championed each child who entered our home.

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On our stair landing is a cork board (that needs to be upgraded!) with a picture of each child who has come through our home. Deacon knew their names, remembered little facts about them, and would sit on the window seat and pray over them with me.

I’d selfishly and happily throw the money back to each donor if I could just have him back, but in the lack of that option, please know that your generosity is felt. Our hearts are warmed knowing that this $12,000+ is building a legacy of Deacon’s life that goes beyond an ornery, outgoing little boy. I have no doubt that it will be used well. I’ve seen first hand the love the staff at the Children’s Home pours out on every child in their care. $12,000 matters. Gosh, he would have loved this.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you. ❤️

P.S. if you’re wanting to join in, online donations can be made at: https://wch.org/donate Make sure to include Deacon’s name so we can know!